#20: Transformation Tip: Honor Your Process
For today's episode, I have a transformation tip about how to honor your process. The way I look at transformation tips is that they are, let's say, small bite sized pieces of information that can support you in making big changes in your life and living a life that is more and more in alignment with what you really want and how you really want to live and be and operate in the world. So today's transformation tip is to honor your process.
There's a lot of noise out there. There are an infinite number of possibilities and options for you to do what you want to do, and ways to get to being how you want to be. It's really important to remember that you get to choose. You get to decide, and it's not going to look like anyone else's process. It's going to be your process. This is a reminder for you to honor that, to understand and embrace it and honor that you can do things your way.
Honor Your Process – Block Out the Noise
You don't have to look to other people. You don't have to listen to their way of doing it. I find that most times when people try to do it someone else's way, first of all, it never really works. And second, it's a struggle, honestly, because it's not necessarily what's in alignment and what's right for you.
I'm very much of the mindset that you have to find the things that work for you and do things your way. I have lots of tools that I use for that, things like human design, for example, and learning more about yourself so that you can operate the way that works best for you. Reminder to say that honor that part of yourself and trust yourself with all of this.
A lot of times when you're going through change, there can be a lot of self-doubt. There can be worry that you're not doing something right, but you are. You're doing it right for you. So remember that, honor it, trust it. This starts a lot of the time with understanding how you best make decisions. I did a podcast episode, episode number five, I think, on overcoming the fear of making decisions, and I break down all of the different decision making styles from human design. You can check it out here.
Honor Your Process – Get to Know Yourself More
A lot of this starts with getting to know yourself more. So you can honor your process in a better way, in a stronger way, in a more aligned way, if you take the time to get to know yourself and how you operate, And if you really honor the way you make decisions, if you give yourself time and space and grace to do things your way instead of comparing or overthinking or trying to mimic something from someone else or following a clear cut formula. I will tell you it's not going to be a clear cut formula. You can take pieces of things from different places, but it really, at the end of the day, it has to work for you.
The clients that I see that want to burn it all down is because they were in a process where they weren't honoring for themselves and what's most in alignment for themselves. I've been there too. I've had a couple other businesses and I realized along the way that, hey, this isn't fitting for me anymore. This isn't working for the season of life that I'm in now, and or I've outgrown something and it's time for something different. You have to trust that. You really do, and you have to honor it and protect it. Because if you're around people that don't understand you or don't really know what you're working through or don't have the same types of goals and dreams, or if you're getting a lot of noise from different places, it can really make you pretty easily veer off track.
This is your reminder that during any transformation or change, especially these big ones that sometimes we find ourselves navigating, it's really important to honor your process. Don't worry about anybody else's except your own, and really follow what feels right to you.
Honor Your Process Conclusion
For today’s reflection and homework take a look and see:
Are you honoring your process?
How are you navigating your changes?
Do you feel like they're really coming from something within you, or are you looking to the external world?
If you need anything, I'm here. I do work with clients one on one, so please feel free to reach out if you want support on your journey. I do not have a cookie cutter approach for you. I take all the different tools and all the different things that I've learned and work with you to find the ones that fit best for you and really support you along the way. So if you're interested, all my information is in the show notes. Please feel free to reach out.
Thank you so much for listening today. I really appreciate you being here, for your support, and really happy to be connected with you in this way. Enjoy the rest of your day, and I'll talk to you next week.
Working Together to Honor Your Process
You’re invited to check out my Human Design readings so that you can learn more about your own energy and how you operate. This tool is a powerful building block that will allow you to better understand the direction you want to go and what is most aligned for you.
If you’d like deeper support and a guide on your journey to lasting change, you’re also invited to check out my one on one coaching containers.
I'm here as a guide and a mentor to support more people in showing up and doing the work to become more of who they really truly are, live more in alignment so we can all be a part of this journey in a new and different way.
Thank you so much again for being here today and for reading this article. I hope you have a great rest of your day, and I'll talk to you next week.
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If you’d like to connect further about unlocking the next step in your personal development journey, please feel free to reach out. I'm on LinkedIn and Instagram. I'm also on Voxer at @MaryClavieres.
If you want support with where you are right now, I'd be honored to work with you.
For 1:1 work, you’re invited to visit this page and connect if you feel called.
Previous Podcast Episodes to Listen to:
Embracing the Mind Body Soul Connection
Transformation Tip: Navigating a Career Pivot
The Importance of Energy Management and a Simple Tool to Help You
The Quiet Parts of Transformation That No One Tells You About
Transformation Tip: Be Willing to Do Things Differently
4 Keys to Create Lasting Change
3 Things that Hold You Back in Life and Business
3 Simple Ways to Reconnect and Embrace the Present Moment
How to Overcome the Fear of Making Decisions
The Easiest Way to Practice Gratitude in One Minute a Day
